Saturday, September 14, 2019

Observations from Behind the Cash Register: A Compliment Goes a Long Way

I can hardly believe that in a few weeks I will be celebrating one year at my Side Hustle as a cashier.  It sounds so cliché, but it feels like just yesterday I was sitting in my car crying because I was so scared and nervous to walk into the store!  Now, I look forward to punching in for my shift!

One of the many observations that I've made about our society is that we are very quick to throw out a complaint and very slow to give a compliment.

Over this past year I've seen a handful of customers loose their cool on Team members.  To be honest - usually the issue is out of the Team members' hands or is the customer's problem.  For example, one time a customer screamed at me because he felt I was bagging his items incorrectly.  He bought two packs of football cards and three matchbox cars.  Seemed reasonable to me to put all five items in one bag.  He, however, wanted the football cards in one bag and the cars in another.  That is no problem.  I would have put each item in it's own bag if he wanted!  Instead of asking, he started screaming at me that I was bagging his items wrong and did not know how to do my job.  He was screaming loud enough for my manager to come over to see what was going on and get an earful about my lack of cashier skills.  As the customer left, my manager, those standing in my line and I just shook our heads asking each other, "What in the heck happened in his world today to make him so grouchy?"

Don't get me wrong, there are definitely instances when it very appropriate to ask to see a manager to complain about a service that was received or something that a Team member said.  However, I encourage you, as a customer, to pause and think before you publicly rip someone apart.  Was this an honest mistake?  Is this out of the person's hands who is standing before you?  Am I the one who is incorrect?

What has happened way more than I expected is Team members going above and beyond to provide excellent customer service and brighten someone's day.  Making silly faces to calm a screaming child.  Assisting an elderly guest with their purchases.  Taking the time to explain how someone can save a few extra bucks.  Offering a listening ear.  More often than not, the customer recognizes this extra touch of goodness and voices their thanks to the Team member.

There have been instances when the customer takes their gratitude to the next level and asks to see the manager.  I love watching a manager come over expecting to get an ear lashing and instead learn of how their employee has done something special.  Just as great is seeing a staff members face as a manager shares with them that a customer called in to the Corporate Customer Service Line and left a message raving about the service they received or filled out an on-line Customer Satisfaction Survey and mentioned them by name.  The Team member is smiling.  The manager is smiling.  Co-workers are high-fiving and calling out words of congratulations.  It's a great moment that boosts everyone's confidence driving them to provide great customer service to the next person in their line.  Some places of businesses offer other incentives when an employee gets a shout out from a customer.

It doesn't take long to stop to speak to a manager, take the survey at the bottom of your receipt or call into the Customer Service Line to leave a comment specifically mentioning the employee who went above and beyond for you.  The impact that you are having on the employee, manager and entire team is HUGE!

I challenge you this week to take a moment to give a SHOUT OUT to an employee who provided you with excellent service or went above and beyond to help you.  You'll be making a positive impact in someone's life and it won't cost you more than a few minutes of your time.

Sunday, August 11, 2019

5 Steps to Kick Off a Life of Healthy Choices

Six months ago my husband survived a massive heart attack.  That was our wake up call that we had to make some life style changes.  There was no waiting for next week or after the holiday or until he finished cardiac rehab.  Change had to happen.  The time for change was now.
picture from Adventures in Medicine

We've been encouraging our family and friends to let our wake up call be their wake up call.  Don't wait for your own crisis because your crisis may not end the same way that our crisis ended.  It's easy for us to say that - you should change.  The hard part is actually making the change. 

To help you start your journey of healthy choices, here are five simple steps that can set you up for success.

1. SET A GOAL
Setting a goal determines the direction you are going.  It gives you something to aim for.  If living a life of healthy choices is new to you, I recommend you set one simple goal.  Your goal should be a SMART one (see image below) with a deadline that is one week to one month away. 

Let me give you some examples:
     I'm going to exercise every day for the rest of the my life.  (Attainable?  Probably not.)
     I'm going to exercise three times a week for the next four weeks.  (SMART goal!)

     I'm never ever going to drink pop again. (If you drink pop every day, this may be tough.)
     I'm going to drink two glasses of water a day for the next week.  (SMART goal!)

     I'm going to eat healthier.  (Specific?  rather a tad vague.)
     I'm going to eat a piece of fresh fruit everyday this week.  (SMART goal!)
     I'm going to try one new healthy recipe a week for the next month.  (SMART goal!)

The thing that I love with starting your journey with a simple SMART goal is that you will be encouraged by a quick success and can set a new goal (or set the same goal again).  A simple SMART goal propels you forward toward your ultimate destination which is a healthy lifestyle.

2. WRITE YOUR GOAL DOWN
The physical act of writing your goal down makes it real and provides you with a layer of accountability.  Post it on your bathroom mirror, in your car, on you computer, on your refrigerator or all of those places.  You want it be somewhere you are going to see it throughout the day.  Another great spot recommended by one of my favorite people - Bobby Bones in his book Fail Until You Don't - is to make your goal the screen saver on your phone.  How many times a day do you look at your phone?!?
This is an excellent book!  It's available on Amazon and
at most other bookstores.  I highly recommend it!
   
3. SHARE YOUR GOAL WITH SOMEONE ELSE
You've set your goal.  You've written your goal down.  Now I recommend that you tell someone your goal.  Not just anyone - someone who will encourage you, celebrate with you when you succeed, hug you and push you back on your path when you mess up (because, let's be honest, you will and that is OK).  Having a support system is SO incredibly important.  I am fortunate to have an amazing support system.  My friend Dana guides, encourages and pushes me.  My friend Michelle sends me the funniest gifs that keep me going.  My friend Justin is the one I'm always trying to keep up with and beat during our workouts.  My mom listens to me.  My husband is faithfully by my side with a high five or a much needed hug.   You know what?  This support system didn't build itself.  I asked them to help me.  I asked them to be a part of MY Team.  This can be hard.  You may not be one to accept help or you may be embarrassed that you need the help or you may think you don't need help.  Trust me - we all need help when it comes to making changes in our lives.  So start with one person. Choose one trusted person and ask them to be your cheerleader.

4. GET STARTED
I think that this is the hardest step.  Now you need to actually take action and do it.

You said that you were going to walk around the block three evenings this week.  But it was a rough day at work and the couch is so comfortable and you're tired.  Come on - get up and do it! 

You said that you were going to pack your lunch this week instead of ordering out.  It's Monday and everyone is ordering from your favorite Chinese restaurant.  You'll just start next week.  No big deal, right?  Come on - You can do this.  It's five days.  That's it.  Five days. 

There are times when I've need to talk to myself out loud. 
"Come on Lisa.  Get up." 
"You can do this Lisa."

Once I get moving, I'm good.  As soon as I step out the door and that fresh air fills my lungs, I'm ready to go.  As soon as I bite into that crisp sweet apple, my craving for fast food grease goes away.  The key is take that first active step to get yourself moving.
picture from Ready Set Go Spirit
     
5. CELEBRATE YOUR SUCCESS
Since your goal was a SMART one, you have a deadline.  Once you reach that deadline - celebrate!!  It could be a high five, a hug, pumping your fist in the air, sending a text message to your cheerleader and getting a great one in return or doing a happy dance.  You went a day without visiting the office candy dish.  ALL RIGHT!!  You went the entire week without hitting up the drive thru for a sweet tea.  YES!!  You and your family went for a walk after dinner three nights this week.  YOU'RE AMAZING!!
VICTORY!!
What do you do now?  You do it again!  Set that goal again.  And then again.  And then again.  Pretty soon that goal of drinking water or exercising or eating a vegetable with every dinner has become a healthy habit.  You're ready to focus on another area of your life. 

What if you didn't reach that initial goal that you set?  That's ok.  Try again.  If it still doesn't work, evaluate your goal.  Is it too big?  Is it too vague?  Is it an area of your life that is just too hard to change right now?  Set yourself up for success. 

Change is hard - but you can do it.  I know you can.  Just give it a try.
I have this posted on my desk at work to remind myself to
keep pushing myself on this journey of change.

Sunday, July 21, 2019

Don't Wait for Your Wake Up Call

It's been five and a half months since my husband's heart attack.  Since then I've joined multiple groups on social media for people who have survived heart attacks and for those working hard to make a healthy life style change.  One common phrase that sticks out to me is "This was my wake up call."

I've also read multiple research articles that discuss the incredible value of living a healthy lifestyle.  Reducing sugar intake.  Increasing physical activity.  Drinking water.  Eating fresh fruits and vegetables.  Research is finding that even if you have a genetic predisposition to things like heart disease and diabetes, making healthy life choices can lower your risk of developing these conditions.  (Please note that there are situations when living the healthiest of lifestyles cannot prevent these diseases.  I've read many many stories of people who are as healthy as can be and yet find themselves in the ER with a heart attack.)

If that is the case, why are so many of us waiting for the crisis moment to be our wake up call?  Denial?  Lack of knowledge?  Laziness?  Low self-worth?

I don't think people realize how much that crisis moment changes your life - physically, emotionally, mentally.  These crisis moments can also impact your personal relationships, your job and your social life in very dramatic ways.  You have anxiety.  You can't sleep.  You've lost control of changing your life style because now it is truly a life and death situation.  You're on a ton of medications which blows your budget out of the water.   You're down on yourself because you read somewhere or heard someone mention the impact that healthy life choices will have on your life, but you blew it off and now here you are in this mess.

So I encourage you . . . no I'm not encouraging . . . . I implore you to not wait for that wake up call.  Don't wait for the crisis to happen to add healthy choices to your life.  Do it TODAY!  Be kind to yourself - change is hard.  Start small - buy a bag of carrots and eat half carrots half chips with your lunch, go for a walk around the block, exchange two cans of pop today for glasses of water.  Every great journey starts with that first step.
One of my favorite illustrations that frequently pops up on Facebook.

From my perspective, the benefits of living a healthy life don't even compare to not focusing on your health at all.  I still eat donuts - I have one instead of four.  That one donut tastes so good and I don't feel sick after.  I still lay on the couch on a lazy Saturday afternoon - I also join friends for a relaxing evening of Yoga in the park.  I'd say that my life is fuller as a result of focusing on my health.

Starting now may not prevent the crisis from happening, but you'll be more prepared.  And if hopefully a crisis never comes - you will live life feeling fantastic and with enough energy to enjoy every single moment!  Learn from those of us who are on the journey and wish we hadn't waited for that wake up call to make changes in our life.
This cartoon may be blunt, but it 's true.

If you're not sure how to start, stick with me.  I'm going to spend some time over the next several weeks talking about how to begin making healthy life choices, how to keep going when life gets tough and how to celebrate success.



Tuesday, July 9, 2019

Hummus = How Much

Looking for a healthy and creative way to show your staff, co-worker or teachers that you appreciate them?  Try a Hummus Party!

Today was one the last day for a consultant working with the Social Workers in our office. We wanted to thank and celebrate her work, but didn’t want to go with the traditional cookies or a cake. While brainstorming ideas, we talked about how much she loves hummus.  That’s when it hit us that hummus sound a lot like “how much.”


There are many phrases that you can use
You’ll never know HUMMUS we’ll miss you!
HUMMUS do we appreciate you?  Let us (or LETTUCE) count the ways.
We’ll never be able to say HUMMUS we appreciate you.
Check out HUMMUS of an impact you’ve had!
HUMMUS do I love you?

Just another way to make appreciation events or celebrations a little healthier!  Enjoy the hummus!

Monday, July 8, 2019

3 Tips for Sticking with Whole 30 Through a 24-Hour Crisis

A key part to success with Whole 30 is planning.  However, life does not always go as planned.   Like this past weekend for example.  I honestly didn't know if I would make it through while successfully sticking with Whole 30, but I did!  Here's the story of how . . .

This past weekend's schedule was jam packed.  I was scheduled Friday, Saturday and Sunday at my side hustle (aka second job - side hustle sounds more fun).  My parents were moving on Monday so our weekend was to be full of prep work, plus I had a special project to wrap up with my Dad. I had set aside time to plan the upcoming week's menu, grocery shop and meal prep (as of Friday, I was on R2D12) on Saturday evening.  Both of my teenagers were working at their summer jobs.  My husband, who suffered a massive heart attack on February 1st of this year, had plans to attend Cardiac Rehab on Saturday.  All four of us were set to move through the weekend in a carefully choreographed performance.

When I clocked out from my side hustle on Saturday evening, I checked my phone and found a text from my husband.  He had stopped at Urgent Care on his way home to have his ear checked out (he suffers from frequent ear infections).  His ear looked fine, but due to his history and the fact that he was reporting some of the same symptoms he had prior to his heart attack, the doctor suggested that he go to the ER for some tests.  They had called ahead for him and he was on his way.

By the time I arrived at the ER, my husband was hooked up to an IV and the initial round of tests had been done.  We knew at that point that he was not actively having a heart attack and were waiting for the results of the various tests.
This is one of my favorite pictures of my husband and I from
our recent vacation.

Obviously, my main focus at this moment was my husband.  However, as time went on, I began to a panic a little.  I was filled with worry for my husband.  I was tired and hungry.  My schedule for the weekend was shot.  I had plenty of time to meal plan while I sat there, but when would I get my shopping done?  How would I find time to do the prep work?  My emotions were bouncing all over the pace.  I wanted a pizza and I wanted one bad.  As soon as we found out what was going on, I was ordering a pizza.  I was going to pick it up on my way home.  I was going to eat it - A LOT of it!

But that didn't happen.  I stayed focus and hung in there.  I pushed through that intense desire to cave and maintained my Whole 30 eating habits the entire 24 hours that my husband was in the hospital.

Three things prevented that from happening and keep me on the Whole 30 straight and narrow:

1) PREPARE FOR A FOOD EMERGENCY - I had emergency provisions in my purse - a Larabar (a compliant one of course!) and an apple.  As soon as my husband was allowed to eat something and was brought a tray, I broke out that Larabar.  When I left the ER a couple of hours later to run home to get the belongings he would need for his night stay, I munched on that apple.

A schedule or a plan can change at any time.  You never know when life is going to throw you a curve ball.  It's normally always easy to find a fast food restaurant to pop in to, but that's not the type of food we're looking for now is it?  I always carry some sort of compliant snack in my purse for such emergencies.
I sent this picture to my friends from the ER - I was ready for a food emergency!

2) A STRONG CIRCLE OF SUPPORT - I know that I am an emotional eater so as soon as I settled into the ER I started texting my two friends who I am currently traveling with on this Whole 30 journey.  They texted me throughout the evening and into the next day.  Words of encouragement.  Funny memes.  When I texted that I thought this would be the moment that sent my Round spinning out of control, my phone went crazy with positive reinforcement to stay strong.

A positive circle of support is so important - whether you are facing a crisis or its just a regular Tuesday afternoon.  Support can come in person, by phone, via text or from people you've never met face-to-face - your Whole 30 Facebook family!
Me (right) with one of the members of my Circle of Support!

3) POSITIVE SELF-TALK - Early on I was thinking that I was not going to be able to hold on.  Pizza is often my go-to emotional support and, trust me, I could taste it!  However, as my friends kept picking me up off the ground, I began to change that conversation going on in my head.  I was telling myself, "You can do it."  As I drove thru the driver-thru to get my kids dinner and could smell those French fries, I ran through the list of positives in my head - improved sleep, decreased pain in my hands, faster time on my last run, looser pants.  I became my own one-member cheerleading squad!

It is easy for self-talk to defeat you and it takes purposeful effort to change the conversation, but it is possible.  Sometimes when I'm by myself or running a 5K, I talk out loud.  That way I'm not only thinking it, but I'm hearing it.  You can do it.  You got this.  You are rocking this round!
picture from www.caba.org.uk

To be honest, I'm kind of proud of myself that I faced this crisis and stuck with my eating habits.  It's the first time my emotional eating habits were tested to this extreme.  And if I can do it, I know that YOU can do it!  Just remember - be prepared with a snack, surround yourself with a strong circle of support, tell yourself that you can do it!


Italian Stuffed Peppers - Whole 30 Compliant

Have you ever picked out a recipe, bought all the ingredients and then on the night that you are ready to make it actually read the recipe and realized that it's not at all what you thought?  Well, that happened to me tonight.  So I had to improvise, and they turned out pretty well.  I'm capturing the recipe here on my blog so that I can make them again.  Plus I thought you might enjoy them, too!
Italian Stuffed Peppers
 Italian Stuffed Peppers

INGREDIENTS
3 large bell peppers
1-1/2 lbs lean ground meat (turkey or pork can be substituted)
1 tsp garlic powder
1 tsp Italian seasoning
1 tsp dried basil
salt & pepper to taste (What exactly does that mean?  I used a 3 shakes of both!)
1 - 24 oz jar of spaghetti sauce (divided)*
1 - 10 oz bag frozen cauliflower rice

DIRECTIONS
1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees
2. Grease a 9X13 pan
3. Spread 1/2 cup spaghetti sauce on the bottom of pan
4. Cut peppers in half, remove stems and seeds
5. Brown meat.  Drain.
6. Add garlic powder, Italian seasoning, basil, salt & pepper and half cup of spaghetti sauce.  Stir until combined.
7. Fill pepper halves with meat mixture and place in 9X13 pan. (I had some filling leftover which I used for my breakfast the next morning.)
8. Place a spoonful of spaghetti sauce on top of each pepper
9. Pour 1/2 cup water into the 9X13 pan.
10. Bake covered for 35 minutes.  Uncover, bake an additional 15 minutes.**
11. Prepare the cauliflower rice.
12. While rice cooks, heat up the remaining spaghetti sauce.
13. Serve the peppers on a bed of cauliflower rice and a spoonful of spaghetti sauce.

*If you are following a Whole 30 eating plan, make sure that your spaghetti sauce is compliant.
** If you are NOT following a Whole 30 eating plan you could top each pepper with some shredded mozzarella cheese.


Saturday, May 18, 2019

Sometimes Success Surprises You

I've been working out with my friends consistently twice a week for over four years.  There have been a lot of successes that I have worked hard to achieve.  I started out using two pound weights.  Now I'm up to 30 pound dumbbells.  When we started, I couldn't do a single sit-up.  Now I can whip out over 75 in one workout with no problem.  I'm really proud of the progress I've made.

However, there are a couple of moves that I have been unable to conquer and, honestly, I'd given up hope of ever being able to do them.  What are these blasted moves that have evaded my conquest all these years???  The crab walk* and a Russian Twist** done with my feet off the ground!

Having said that, you won't believe what happened this past week!

Dana (our Coach) had the crab walk as part of our warm-up.  As usual, I saved it until last and then hid in the farthest corner behind a row of tables (We work out in the Adult Day Center were we work) where no one would see me struggle to lift my butt off the ground and then give up after a few seconds.  I could not believe it when instead of struggling to lift my butt it popped right up and I was able to begin making my way across the floor.  Since I'm behind the table, Dana is totally missing this moment.  So I start calling for her like a proud three year-old calling for his mom, "Dana!  Dana!  I'm doing it!  I'm doing it!  Come see!"

When we dive into the first part of our workout, I inwardly roll my eyes and sigh - Russian Twists!  We were to do 20 seconds on/10 seconds off alternating between Russian Twists and a Wall Sit.***  Dana always challenges me to try to do the Russian Twist with my feet in the air.  I do, but after a few seconds my feet either crash to the ground or I roll onto my back.  Dana yells "GO!" so I tighten my abs, find my focal spot on the wall across from me, lean back and lift my feet off the ground.  Twist.  Twist.  Twist.  I'm solid.  Those feet aren't going anywhere.  Time is called.  Did that just happen?  Yes it did!  And it happened three more times.  WHAT?!?!  I'm jumping up and down.  Dana and I high five.

SUCCESS!  Two in one night!

The lessons I was reminded of from this eventful workout -
1) Never give up!  When I consistently work hard, success is going to find me - even when I'm not expecting it! 
2) Don't blow off small successes.  The joy and positive feelings from small victories motivates me to push towards my bigger goals. Celebrate!  (In this case, the celebration was lots of high five and me bouncing around giggling throughout the workout.)
3) A support system is vital.  Without Dana and Justin challenging and motivating me week after week, I would not be doing what I'm doing.
Team Muscle celebrating my Surprise Success!
I encourage you to do the same.
Never give up!
Celebrate your victories!
Surround yourself with encouraging people!


* Here is a link to demonstrate a crab walk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-3r4cl4ahA
**  Here is a link to demonstrate a Russian Twist
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lvNPZCtt8NQ
*** Here is a link to demonstrated a wall sit
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cdph8hv0O0